The How to Cheat Podcast

EP 2434 - Martha Stewart Admits to Affair While Condemning Cheaters

In this episode of The TeresaPod, host Teresa Conway delves into Martha Stewart’s recent revelation about having an affair during her marriage to Andrew Stewart. Teresa examines Martha’s marriage, career transformation, and her complex views on infidelity, exploring the contradictions in how people perceive cheating—even when they’ve done it themselves.
Episode Highlights:
Martha Stewart’s Marriage: A look back at her marriage to Andrew Stewart, their successes, and eventual divorce.
The Confession: Martha reveals in her Netflix documentary that she had an affair, while still condemning men who cheat.
The Duality of Thought: Discussing the contradictory views people hold about infidelity, even when they’ve cheated.
Cheating from Boredom: Exploring why some people cheat, including Martha’s potential dissatisfaction with a “cookie-cutter” life.
Martha’s Reflection: "I could have just been a miserable, has-been housewife, but I didn’t let that happen to myself."
Key Takeaways:
Infidelity can stem from boredom or dissatisfaction.
Even those who have cheated may still hold strong opinions on the subject.
Life is complex, and opinions can evolve over time.
Quotable: "Martha calls cheating men 'pieces of s—' while casually admitting her own affair. It’s a striking example of the duality in how we view infidelity."
Tune in to hear Teresa’s thoughts on how Martha’s story speaks to the complexities of human relationships and self-reflection.
Call to Action:
Don’t miss Martha’s upcoming Netflix documentary, Martha, debuting October 30.
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EP 2433 - Why I Reply on Ashley Madison When I'm Not Looking

In this episode of The Teresa Pod, Teresa dives into the surprising reasons why she replies to men on Ashley Madison, even though her profile says not to message her. She shares insights on the types of men who ignore her boundaries, their confidence, and how she finds curiosity in their persistence. Teresa also discusses how she keeps her profile active for professional purposes, and why some men stand out while others get immediately blocked.
Key Takeaways:
Confidence and curiosity make certain men stand out, even when they ignore clear boundaries.
Teresa replies to men because she enjoys seeing who has the guts to push through her tough profile.
She keeps her Ashley Madison account active to review clients' profiles and offer advice on how they present themselves.
Men who follow her advice stand out by being genuine and respectful, rather than overly sexual or arrogant.
Standing out on dating platforms isn’t about luck—it’s about having an interesting profile, being polite, and sending thoughtful messages.
Quotable Moments:
"I tell men, if everyone’s wearing a green shirt, wear a red one. Stand out."
"Some men show confidence and curiosity, and that’s what allows them to break through."
"I never lead anyone on—I’m here to help men improve, not to play games."
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EP 2432 - Online Chatting Is Where You Win Her

In this episode of The Teresa Pod, host Teresa Conway dives into the most critical part of your affair strategy: mastering the online chat game. Teresa explains how messaging can make or break your chances of moving from initial interest to a real-life connection. She offers expert tips on how to stand out in a crowded inbox, keep conversations engaging, and close the deal without coming off as desperate.
Episode Highlights:
The importance of a strong, personalized opener
How to keep her attention with engaging, light conversations
Strategies for introducing sexy talk at the right time
Tips for asking for a meet without rushing or stalling
Key Takeaways:
Start with thoughtful, profile-based openers to show you're paying attention.
Avoid interrogating or rushing into sexual topics—let her bring it up.
Ask for a meet within 36-48 hours to avoid becoming a pen pal.
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EP 3124 - Affair Sex Is Always Hot

In this episode of The Teresa Pod, Teresa explores the reasons why affair sex is often considered incredibly hot and thrilling. Drawing from real-life stories and expert insights, she breaks down the psychological and emotional factors that contribute to the heightened intensity of illicit relationships.
Episode Highlights:
Novelty: The excitement of a new partner and the thrill of the forbidden keep the energy alive.
Commitment to Pleasure: Affair partners go "all in," leading to uninhibited, passionate sex.
Experience: Older and more experienced partners provide heightened satisfaction through patience and skill.
Fulfillment: Mutual desire and meeting each other's fantasies create powerful sexual energy.
Communication: Open, vulnerable communication makes desires easier to express, deepening the connection.
Key Takeaway: To turn up the heat in any relationship, focus on introducing novelty, committing fully to pleasure, and fostering open communication.
Listen now for a deep dive into why affair sex can be so intensely satisfying!
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EP 3024 - Why Ashley Madison Suspends Women's Accounts

In this episode, Teresa Conway explores why women’s accounts on Ashley Madison often get suspended, especially when personal information is shared too soon. If you’ve ever had someone disappear mid-chat, Teresa breaks down the reasons and shares tips on how to avoid getting flagged as suspicious.
Episode Highlights:
Why women’s accounts get suspended: Sharing personal info (like email, Kik, or Telegram) within the first 24 hours can trigger an automatic block.
Scammers on Ashley Madison: Scammers use free women’s accounts to lure men off the platform for extortion. Early personal info sharing looks like a scam tactic.
Personal experience: Teresa shares how a woman disappeared while chatting with her client, likely because she shared info too quickly.
Best practices: Stay on the platform longer to avoid being flagged and ensure the person you’re chatting with isn’t a scammer.
Key Takeaways:
Avoid sharing personal info too soon, especially from a new account.
Stay on the platform until you meet the person in real life.
Be cautious of suspensions and know that accounts can be reactivated after review.
Quotable:"Moving off the site can get you suspended as a lady. But it’s also good practice to stay on the site just in case the guy’s a dud."
Stay safe and listen for more tips on navigating Ashley Madison without getting flagged!
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I'm Teresa Conler, and you're listening to the TeresaPod. As always, I'm super happy to be here. Bye!

EP 2924 - Fan Validate My Cheating Advice

In this episode, host Teresa Conway shares a powerful email from a reader that reaffirmed why she wrote her book, How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress. The email highlights the reader’s appreciation for how Teresa breaks down complex topics like adultery and lying into learnable skills. Teresa reflects on how this feedback mirrors her own journey from making early mistakes to seriously researching cheating and ultimately becoming the resource she needed when she first started out.
Episode Highlights:
A heartfelt fan email about How to Cheat and the reader’s first impressions:
"Thank you for the free copy of your book! I'm currently reading it, and it's absolutely fascinating."
"You present complicated topics like adultery and lying, making them seem like learnable skills."
Teresa reflects on the importance of offering practical guidance for those navigating adultery.
How her personal security breach led to the serious research behind the book.
The reader's journey mirrors Teresa’s own initial curiosity about Ashley Madison and their desire to understand it before diving in.
"I was researching Ashley Madison and came across your articles. You stood out as a leading expert on the subject."
Teresa's mission: becoming the resource she wished she had when she began her affair.
Key Takeaways:
Even in risky situations like infidelity, research and preparation can prevent major mistakes.
How to Cheat provides the practical tools and knowledge for making informed decisions rather than acting impulsively.
Get a free pdf copy of my ebook — How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress — by joining ⇨ MY EMAIL LIST!
Quotable Moment:"I decided to become the resource I needed when I started."
Call to Action:
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EP 2428 - The Male Experience: Navigating Ashley Madison

Episode Summary:In this episode, Teresa dives into the challenges men face during their first 30 days on Ashley Madison. While many assume cheating is driven by physical needs, Teresa shares insights from her experience with male clients, showing how emotional needs—like a desire for affection and validation—often play a significant role. The episode explores the harsh realities men encounter on this female-dominated platform, where competition is fierce, and women hold the power.
Episode Highlights:
Why Men Cheat:Men often cheat not just for sex but to fulfill unmet emotional needs like affection and connection, feeling neglected in their relationships.
Ashley Madison’s Brutal Reality for Men:
The platform is highly competitive with a five-to-one ratio of men to women.
Women hold all the power, and rejection can be soul-crushing for men.
Men struggle with the shift in dynamics, as they are often judged based on their appearance and approach.
Improving Your Odds on Ashley Madison:
Profile Optimization: Write a well-crafted profile and use strong photos to stand out.
Messaging Strategy: Avoid generic lines; personalize messages to show genuine interest.
Understanding the Competition: Creating a female profile can give men insight into the chaos women face on the site.
Key Takeaways:
Success on Ashley Madison requires strategy and understanding the power dynamics.
Men need to focus on improving their profile, messaging, and being patient.
Quotable Moment:“If you're a man on Ashley Madison, success comes down to strategy. Make your profile stand out, be genuine, and remember, it’s the women who call the shots.”
Call to Action:Ready to learn how to master the game on Ashley Madison? Tune in now for Teresa’s expert tips on making your profile stand out and winning the attention of women on the platform.

EP 2427 - 3 Things Smart Men Do to Stand Out on Ashley Madison

In this episode, host Teresa Conway shares three essential tips that smart men use to differentiate themselves on Ashley Madison. With the competition so fierce, it's vital to avoid common mistakes and instead stand out by being thoughtful, respectful, and patient. Whether you're on Ashley Madison or any other dating platform, these strategies will help you succeed.
Episode Highlights:
Why winking and favoriting are ineffective.
The importance of not asking for or sending pictures too soon.
How message-bombing comes across as desperate and how to avoid it.
Key Takeaways:
Don’t Wink or Favorite: Send a personalized message instead.
Don’t Ask for Pics: Let her offer and build a connection first.
Don’t Message-Bomb: Send a follow-up, then give her space to respond.
Quotable: "Standing out on Ashley Madison isn’t about doing more. It’s about being thoughtful, respectful, and patient."
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EP 2426 - Lt Gov Mark Robinson of North Carolina Gives Cheaters a Bad Name

In this episode, Teresa dives into the scandal surrounding North Carolina’s Lieutenant Governor and gubernatorial candidate, Mark Robinson. From his Ashley Madison cheating scandal to his shocking comments on slavery, Black Nazis, and trans porn, Robinson is the latest in a long line of family values politicians giving all cheaters a bad name.
Episode Highlights:
Mark Robinson's Ashley Madison account and the hypocrisy behind his family values platform.
His outrageous remarks on slavery and being a slave owner.
The bizarre claim that there were Black Nazis.
Robinson’s double life, enjoying trans porn while actively opposing trans rights.
Why people who denounce others often have their own skeletons in the closet.
Key Takeaways:
If you’re living a double life, tone down the public rhetoric—it'll save you from the fallout when the truth comes out.
A lesson for all cheaters: don’t be self-righteous if you're secretly breaking the rules.
Quotable: “Mark’s problem is, he’s just basically a big mouth... When you have a public life that says one thing and a private life that shows a different thing, you’re bound to crash and burn.”
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EP 2425 - Understanding Scammers and Bots on Ashley Madison

In this episode of the Teresa Pod, host Teresa Conway dives into a common frustration for Ashley Madison users—dealing with scammers and confusing auto-generated messages. She breaks down how to recognize scam patterns, avoid falling for fake profiles, and explains the purpose behind Ashley Madison’s system-generated messages.
Episode Highlights:
Scammer Tactics:
Sending flirty messages or photos without viewing your profile.
Moving conversations off-site (to WhatsApp, etc.) to ask for money.
Geographic inconsistencies and last-minute money requests (e.g., for cabs or transportation).
Ashley Madison’s Auto-Messages:
System-generated messages that simulate interest and encourage users to spend credits.
Winks or favorites triggering automatic replies, which can be mistaken for real interactions.
Key Tips:
Avoid moving conversations off the platform too soon.
Don’t give out personal information or money to someone you haven’t met.
Read messages carefully to detect auto-generated content.
Quotable:
“If it feels too good to be true, it probably is.”
 
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