EP 2403 - More on Dating App Icebreakers: The Overbaked Lasagna Edition

In this episode, Teresa Conway discusses writing effective icebreaker messages for online dating. She analyzes a listener-submitted icebreaker, highlights common mistakes, and provides an effective alternative.

Episode Highlights:

• Analysis of an "over-baked lasagna" message
• Common mistakes in icebreakers:
  • Weaker, unconfident language
  • Unnecessary repetition
  • Asking inappropriate questions too soon
• A recommended approach for effective icebreakers
• Key elements of a successful first message

Key Takeaways:

• Keep messages concise and confident
• Demonstrate that you've read the person's profile
• Focus on making a connection, not gathering information
• Use a friendly, casual tone
• Avoid overwriting - stick to four key elements:
  • greeting,
  • acknowledgment,
  • connection,
  • invitation

Quotable:

"If you've got an icebreaker that is more than four sentences long, stop. You're probably making a mistake."

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